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Random thought #30

Posted in Random thoughts by daianara on July 9, 2009

What is the purpose of a relationship? And what happens when that purpose is served?

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  1. bloggerulcici said, on July 9, 2009 at 11:43 am

    1. Sex
    2. More sex

  2. Cosmin said, on July 9, 2009 at 1:15 pm

    O să sune şi mai naiv acum, dar scopul îl văd a fi pe undeva la intersecţia dintre dragoste, fericire şi împlinire reciprocă şi partea cea mai bună e că nu se termină niciodată din a fi împlinit, ca o perfuzie permanentă cu morfină, perfect dozată.
    Dar recunosc că ăsta e mai mult un ideal sau, cum învăţam odată la chimie, se întâmplă doar în condiţii normale. În realitate oamenii se schimbă iar scopul, deşi acelaşi, se rătăceşte prin birocraţie şi apare ca o încercare de a obţine sus numitele bla, bla şi bla, o încercare uneori foarte bună dar totuşi eşuată…din care te-ai ales măcar cu sex, mult sex :)
    Nu, totuşi nu cred că o relaţie îşi îndeplineşte vreodată scopul, cu sens de finalitate.

  3. Liz said, on July 9, 2009 at 2:02 pm

    Cat de soft si romantica sunt eu si cat de vitala mi se pare dragostea totusi is singura care vede paradoxul devilish din geniala si retorica intrebare? Am luat invers intrebarile… si la what happens e raspuns sec intotdeauna… oricare ar fi scopul relatiei… Analiza pe text… care e scopul? (Flower power style) sa ne iubim! Bun. Purpose served. Ne-am iubit. Now what? (Masculin style) sex! Done! Now what? E stop, schimbam directia, ne transformam, ne reinventam sau ne propunem un scop original si nebun. E singura scapare si-atat de grea.

  4. xelomon said, on July 9, 2009 at 2:40 pm

    Creating or destroying something in those who enter the relationship (ex. orgasm for sexual relations).
    When the purpose is served, the relationship either dies or transforms.
    Ex. a sexual relation can become a love&sex relationship.

  5. daianara said, on July 9, 2009 at 4:26 pm

    @Danny You watched way too much Californication.
    @Cosmin Welcome! Imi place raspunsul tau, desi nu sunt in totalitate de acord cu el. :) Good point with the second part of your answer though…
    @Liz Dear Liz, thank you for thinking differently. Asa rece si textual analizam si eu lucrurile asera. Love-checked, sex-checked, puii mei, hai sa evoluam o data, you don’t need an MBA to fall in love and/or fuck, everyone does that. Can we be a little more than that?
    @Xelo I dunno why but I’m thinking about Captain Planet right about now. :D But yes, that is indeed the case. It either dies out or it transforms. It’s never an immediate thing because we are predisposed to prefer a situation that’s only partly satisfying to our needs then nothing at all. We are predictable little human beings.

    Din punctul meu de vedere scopul final al unei relatii, except the sex, ar fi sa gasesti pe cineva care sa te suporte cu toate defectele (oricat de putine ar fi :P) si, mai mult, langa care sa poti tacea pur si simplu din gur fara a fi nevoit sa-ti manifesti genialitatea tot timpul. Sa fi your lazy, bad mouth, shallow self and be loved even like that. That for me is perfection. :)

  6. devland said, on July 9, 2009 at 11:54 pm

    Pardon me, but isn’t that a mid-life crisis question?!

  7. omu' de la colt said, on July 10, 2009 at 6:38 am

    it is never served .

    the purpose of a relationship is to feed that one tiny part of ourselves that whispers in our ears : ‘you are special’ .

    we feel that we are not . but we hear that we are .

    a relationship is food for the little voice .

    why ?

    because , at the end of the day , we will follow the voice over what we feel .

  8. daianara said, on July 10, 2009 at 11:36 am

    @Dev, I thought I’d get a head start on it. :P
    @omu’ de la colt Welcome! And yes indeed, we crave to hear those words, being told we’re the one and to have someone else acknowledge us as special. Nice, very nice… :)

  9. bloggerulcici said, on July 10, 2009 at 11:36 am

    Mai, mie mi-a placut ce-a zis omu de la colt si tind sa fiu de acord cu el. Simplu si la obiect.

  10. thecreatrix said, on July 10, 2009 at 1:30 pm

    a lot of sex, of course!

  11. daianara said, on July 10, 2009 at 7:25 pm

    Da, omu’ de la colt makes a very nice point.
    *hugs the Creatrix Las’ ca merem noi maine in pub! :P
    PS: Ma viziteaza o gramada de americani. Wtf? Are they planning an invasion or smth?

  12. daianara said, on July 11, 2009 at 9:26 am

    Eeeewwww at the quality. And a very wtf movie at that.

  13. devland said, on July 11, 2009 at 11:49 am

    A mai observat cineva smilie-ul din footer-ul blogului?

  14. thecreatrix said, on July 11, 2009 at 3:07 pm

    omu de la coltz chiar a dat un raspuns foarte bun. frumoaso!

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